Week #25 – Letter of Honor/Tribute to Parents
“Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.”
- Honor means to prize, to fix a value upon.
- Value means to place worth, importance and usefulness on them.
The action of showing value is appreciation and respect.
My son, keep your father's commandment, and forsake not your mother's teaching.
Listen to your father who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old.
- Placing a value on who they are, no matter what they might have done or did not do.
I. Two-fold promise that is affected by honoring parents.
- First Promise – It affects your relationship with the Lord. “That it may go well with you…”
- Second Promise – It affects your own life in a positive way.
The actions you take toward your parents reflect your heart toward God.
He answered them, “And why do you break the commandment of God for the sake of your tradition? For God commanded, ‘Honor your father and your mother,’ and, ‘Whoever reviles father or mother must surely die.’ But you say, ‘If anyone tells his father or his mother, “What you would have gained from me is given to God,” he need not honor his father.’ So for the sake of your tradition you have made void the word of God.
For Jesus, doing what was wrong in dishonoring your parents could never be linked with what was right in God’s eyes.
Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.
A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Results of dishonoring life with parents:
There are those who curse their fathers and do not bless their mothers. There are those who are clean in their own eyes but are not washed of their filth. There are those—how lofty are their eyes, how high their eyelids lift! There are those whose teeth are swords, whose fangs are knives, to devour the poor from off the earth, the needy from among mankind.
II. Practical Tips to Bring Honor
- Meaningful touch
- Spoken words of gratitude
- Give them words of high value
- Give them a picture of a special future
When parents grow older, they want to know we love them much more than to receive what we can buy them. One parent put it this way: ”Give me a kiss and time for my birthday. That way I don’t have to dust it.”
Take the time we have left and write a “I am thankful” letter to your parents by next week.
If your parents are deceased, write a “tribute letter”. When you have your children and grandchildren together read this to them and let them know the qualities you received from your parents.